Tuesday, November 15, 2011

Joy Versus Happiness

Verses like these use to trouble me:
"Consider it pure joy, my brothers, whenever you face trials of many kinds," --James 1:2 (NIV) 
"In this you greatly rejoice, though now for a little while you may have had to suffer grief in all kinds of trials." -- 1 Peter 1:6 (NIV)
"Not only so, but we also rejoice in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance;" -- Romans 5:3 (NIV)
Rejoice in suffering?  Consider it pure joy when we face trails? My heart says, "Yes Jesus! Praise the Lord!" But my mind says, "Whatever dude." When I face difficult trails the emotions that surface are hurt, anxiety, anger, or sadness. Rarely did joy surface.



Usually during trails, happiness doesn't enter often, and when it does it is usually an emotion that is short lived.  Quickly, the hurt, anxiety, anger, or sadness returns and engulfs my entire being.

The way my eyebrows crunch inward communicates a lack of joy.  My thinking and actions becomes more self-centered from the lack of joy because I'm either attempting to self-heal or I sit and wait and expect God to place priority on my healing.

How in the world am I supposed to be happy when I face trials like a death in the family, a loss of a job, a failing grade in class or loss of a relationship?  In these moments, life sucks.

Where's this joy God the father promises? (Isaiah 55:12)

What is this joy that Job had? (Job 33:26)

Hmmm...  I wonder if we use happiness and joy interchangeably? After being inspired by Rich Nathan's a Jonathan Rue's sermons and doing a wordstudy on how joy is used biblically, I realize that joy is not just an emotional reaction or an extreme ecstatic emotional reaction; it is a quality.  It is a quality given to us by the Holy Spirit (Gal 5:22). Therefore it shouldn't be used interchangeably with happiness; these terms are different.

Happiness is a reactive emotion. Something must trigger us in order to experience the emotion of happiness.  A fellow blogger, Brian Cromer said, "Happiness is an emotion usually directly related to circumstances that are currently happening." So when things or going our way or when awesome things happen to us we react in happiness.

Joy is an attitude of the heart and is a gift that derives from God's love (Isa 9:3, Acts 13:52; 14:15-17). As in all of God's gifts, joy can be interrupted by sin. Therefore, we are called to share in the promise of joy by walking with Jesus daily.  We must expand and rejoice in our knowledge of Him (1 Thes. 5:16; Phil. 3:1; 4:4; 1 Pet. 1:8).

Where happiness is simply an emotion; joy is an attitude of the heart that derives from love and the knowledge of God. So it makes sense why we can experience joy in the midst of suffering. Suffering and affliction are ultimately temporal but God's providence is eternal.

How does God's people know joy?
  • God's deliverance (1 Samuel 2:1)
  • God's goodness (2 Chronicles 6:41)
  • Repentance (Job 22:22-26)
  • The rightness of God's principles (Psalm 19:8)
  • God's compassion (Psalm 94:19)
  • Being in God's presence (Psalm 122:1)
  • God's salvation (Isaiah 25:9)
  • Honoring the Sabbath (Isaiah 58:13-14)
  • God's words (Jeremiah 15:16)
  • God's generosity (Jeremiah 31:12)
  • Knowing Jesus Christ (Philippians 1:23-26)
  • Favor by God (Luke 1:46-49)
  • Trusting God (Romans 15:13)
Notice that God's deliverance, goodness, compassion, presence, salvation, generosity and favor are everlasting.  So we can continue to be joyful if we trust in the everlasting promise of God and engage in work for the kingdom. 

Therefore, "Rejoice always, pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus, Amen.

3 comments:

  1. Great post! We can certainly rejoice always because joy emanates from aspects of our GOD that are everlasting.
    --Elton (facebook.com/thisisfhw)

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  2. Thanks Elton! Feel free to repost this on your FACEBOOK PAGE and like mine also (http://www.facebook.com/jbreflects

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  3. This is an awesome post Jamaal! As ai was reading, the Lord was showing me the difference between happiness and joy before I got to it in your post. I believe this is a concept He really wanted me to grasp. I'm in a season of my life where happiness is rare. The joy He has given me is not dependent upon my worldly condition, but my spiritual condition. The joy of the Lord is strengthening my spiritual being everyday.

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